Ju-LIE

SoD:: Free Your Mind-EnVogue

It's already July 11--people say to you when something isn't going your way "when the time is right, it'll work out for you". I'm SO sick of hearing that or things of that nature.

I'm sick of being in my mother's house with my son. I want it to be Myles and me. JUST Myles and me, with maybe a roommate in an apartment or a house that we're working on getting. NOT in my mother's house. Love the woman, but oil and water just won't EVER mix! Well maybe I should't say oil & water because we're just alike. So, too much water in the pot makes the pot overflow.....yup, that's A LOT better.

Anywho, what's up world?!? Hope the people I know that read this blog haven't given up on my long spells of not blogging. I think people should get paid a good salary while looking FOR jobs and if you're a stay at home mom, you should also get a good salary with AWESOME benefits. Being a stay at home mom is one heck of a job for real!

This is a late night blog so it'll definitely be ALL over the place and there will be lots of caps to let you know what I really want to emphasize on. First off, Myles and I are both sick, it sucks, but it's life. I'm just not really used to being sick, so taking care of myself and an infant can be tough at times. Then, my phone is OFF.....a blackberry is called a crackberry for a reason. SMH!!

Random thought/question:: Should I feel offended if a guy is talking to a chick who isn't that pretty on the outside & he's talking to me too?? (Yes, that was a bit mean, but that's just how I'm feeling right now--bish ISN'T cute to me & I will give a cute chick props if need be, no homo)

I'm thinking about either going on a diet or ordering some diet pills from China that my friends sister used & she lost A LOT of weight. This fat thing has gotsta go! SO over it--I lose a little weight, get my Brazilian butt lift & I'm as good as new.......even though I know the fellas like a lil meat on the bones these days, I'm not quite where I want to be. Maybe lose about 50 lbs & I'm good! Just so I can fit into a wider selection of cute clothes, yup! & because it's healthy to haha

Another random, I have told this dude like 23 million times that I want nothing to do with him & he tends to drag me along because he KNOWS I allow it & I let him go, haven't talked to him or anything, but I want to add him on FB & talk to him SO bad......temptation is a bad bish, really she is......so props go out to her

So Carmelo Anthony & Lala Vasquez got married today.....they took their time. They were engaged for a MINUTE && I don't blame them! I want to be engaged for like two years before I get married. I want to really se if the dude is THE ONE for me. N*ggas these days be on some other stuff and we just cant have that maaaaan! But anywho, I think I'm out of topics & randoms to discuss at the moment---so #thatisall :o)

hit me up on twitter @laruhn or skype:: ruskles

God Bless!

xo*

WTF when I google "July Graphics" only things that come up are for the 4th of July....ummmm that's over with Google, sheesh!

Happy Independence Day

Everybody be safe out today! Don't drink & drive/mess with fireworks!

Be blessed!!

Just for a smile

Here's my little boy after a bath! Gotta love him!!

:o)

Hope your day has been a great one!

xo*

Guess Who's Back?!?

It's ME snitches!!

I've been gone for a few....celebrating birthdays and such :)

I'm 23 now, whoo hoo!!

Anywho, before I get started I wanted to tell you three things I learned while celebrating my birthday down in Atlanta....

1. Before a celebrity asks you if you want a drink, and they do something you want to do, take the opportunity to network......

2. Floyd Mayweather is ignorant

3. Don't regret anything you've done, especially where people don't know you!

(I will take the time to explain each of these!!)

So with the first lesson I learned, as I stated before, we (we being my girls and I) went to Atlanta to celebrate my 23rd birthday! That Thursday night, we went to this awesome club called Opera, and we were in VIP--since my friend knew a promoter & it was my birthday celebration too! When we first got there, of course the first stop was the bar. Everybody got their drinks then as we're standing there, I feel somebody tap me with a little force on my back. I thought it was one of my girls, but none of them said they'd done it. So then this handsome man starts laughing and says "It was me".....I initially had no clue who he was, then my friend whispered to me that he was Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. (If anybody reads this & they don't know me, my dream job is to be an on-air radio personality) He bought us a round of patron shots & then me and my girls thanked him & walked away. STUPIDEST thing I could've ever done.....the next day, I woke up, with a sore knee *hahaha, I fell later that night in Opera* but I was beating myself in the head asking myself why I didn't take the chance to network....I'm still beating myself in the head as a matter of fact. So as I'd stated before, when you meet somebody in your field, NETWORK first, drink later :)

I think the second lesson is self explanatory.....Floyd was having a party at one of the clubs down in the A and he claimed he was supposed to be throwing out $40,000. (We went, but didn't stick around to see him or his money, club was TOO hood) But as he was on the radio, he just made no sense and sounded like a complete fool. Ugh, money just doesn't fix some things with some people huh?!? Shame!

Third lesson, is something we should all know. While this may sound like I'm kind of contradicting myself from lesson 1, it's true. The past is the past, and we only live once. I mean I know a handful of people down in ATL, so if I'd wanted to get buck nasty, I would've done so and not regretted it at all because it's MY life & I do as I please.......counted my lucky stars and kept it moving!

I loved it there but really missed my son too! Happy to have his bright toothless smile back in my life :o) Hopefully, he'll get to experience the things I've experienced when he gets older because I can say I've done a lot and I'm proud of it!

Well, that's all for right now!

xo*

First Day of Summer :o)

ToD:: Summertime-Fresh Prince & DJ Jazzy Jeff

It's the first day of summer, June 21, 2010! Yay, two days until my birthday....3 days until I'm in ATL with some of my main chicks! I'm too excited. Raleigh has been kind to me while I've been here, but I'm ready to get to the dirty south ;)

Today has been pretty chill. Got to chill with my baby boy and I loved it. He's just so happy and cheerful. Some people complain that their kids cry all the time, mine only cries when nobody is talking to him or when he's hungry. Hopefully that's a sign of a chill kid as he grows older.

Yet on to some other things going on in my life! One of my best friends is making dinner for me her and her sister tonight....yay!! Also, my son's father is taking me to buy me a few outfits tomorrow (an early birthday gift since I'll be going to take Myles to my grandmother's house ON my birthday....I always end up driving somewhere on my birthday aaahhh!!) But I think it's going to be a pretty good birthday overall. I'm going to surprise my mother with an early birthday dinner since I'll be out of town (her birthday is 3 days after mine). She and I both will be out of town, we never really spend our birthdays together lol, sad but true.

Tomorrow, we're planning on going to the pool....so maybe I'll take a few pix and post them for y'all to see! Sorry this was posted too late, but have a great night!

xo*

Thank you for being a friend!

....I don't think I'm going to blog about celebs anymore. I may have a little snippett of something that's going on but I don't think I wanna do that. Why? Too many people are already doing it, plus not too many people read my blog soooo what's the point??

I'm going to blog about my life & the people in it. I'll try to get back on daily, but as I'd stated before, times are hard & I REALLY need to find a job...for me & so I can continue supporting my baby boo :)

Before I go on an issue we should all know about, I just wanted to say you don't have to have a lot of friends to have fun. I have a good handfull of friends and when we get together & party, we have a lot more fun and a lot less drama then the million girl march friendships have.....the pic I posted was from last night. We partied at Hi5 (in Raleigh, NC) and had too much fun!! Now on to what is on my chest....

A SOCIAL NETWORK is just that....nothing more nothing less. So many people get caught up in the world of Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, and all of the other millions of networks out there. I don't understand why people try and get really crunk nasty online, but are the total opposite in person. Be who you are NO MATTER WHAT, be it internet or personally. Ugh! I just wanted to get that off of my chest because no matter what at the end of the day all you have is you. I just witnessed one of my really good friends go through some twitter bs that ended up off of twitter for no reason.

If you know me, I'm a go hard or go home kind of person. If I have something to say, I'll say it to you personally, then put it out there that I've told you (if I feel it's something that can be put out there). No need in faking the funk. It will get you NOWHERE in life. I mean maybe my opinions are out there and I may sound like I'm insensative, but it's me. Hate it or love it. At the end of the day, those who are there for me are there for me and I have my son with me as well.

Onto something else, I can't believe that it's almost been a year since the death of Micheal Jackson & Farrah Faucette. (sorry if I spelled it wrong) What a difference a year makes. We've also lost Gary Colemen and Rue McClanahan....sad days for us who have grown up watching reruns of Diff'rent Strokes & Golden Girls.

This time last year I was in Jersey preparing to come home from a wonderful pre-birthday weekend in New York with some of my best friends. Couldn't do much b/c I had my little bun in the oven, but a year later I must say his father and I have had some issues, but overall, couldn't be more greatful to have a man who loves his son and will put almost anything to the side for him.

(SN:: There was just a fire in the apartment complex, so I was just gone for what seemed like forever!!! Thank God for the men & women who risk their lives with any type of dangerous job)

Right now, I'm watching the American Dream: The Jackson 5 Story, I love it to death!!

So maybe I'll come back later, maybe I won't!

I really want to blog while I'm in Atlanta for my birthday b/c I'm sure that I'll have PLENTY to blog about! Hopefully I'll be partying with the celebs like I did the last time I was in Atlanta :)

Anywho, Happy Father's Day to all of the fathers out there who take care of their kids (and the mothers who have double duty as well)

God Bless you all (I know he's truly blessed me!!!)
xo*

SoRRy!

....I haven't been blogging like I'm supposed to...

Been dealing w/the real world trying to find a job && such....

so BARE WITH ME!!

I'll be back soon enough with more than the best :o)

thnx 4 being patient!

xo*